“And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it. And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat: But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die. And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”
The most important area in the destiny of man where satan attack most is marriage. The first target of attack in the life of any man is marriage. If in the life of any man satan has recorded his greatest success, it is marriage. This is because the understanding of many people of marriage is shallow.
People take marriage as a game rather than a destiny. Marriage is more than a relationship. Marriage is a spiritual transaction of destiny. It is deeper than the relationship.
Marriage is a spiritual yoke, that when the two come together, they are yoked together.
Marriage is a covenant, and anyone that wants to break the covenant incurs the anger of God.
Marriage does not have an escape door. If you will come out, it is either through the roof or you break the wall. If you do that too you will be wounded.
That is why nobody comes out of the marriage without wounds.
Marriage is a destiny transaction.
Therefore, when a man and a woman have this understanding,
they will not marry because of the tribe,
they will not marry because of stature,
but they will marry because of destiny.
When a woman marries a man that has no interest in her destiny, that woman is doomed.
When a man marries a woman that has no interest in his destiny, that man will suffer.
Marriage is not the plan of man.
Marriage is not the plan of the woman.
Marriage is the plan of God.
Therefore any man that wants to enter into marriage without the knowledge and approval of God will regret.
When trouble comes, he will begin to find the God he did not consult.
Marriage is very important and is the first institution on earth.
There are revelations we must understand from the passages in Genesis 2:15-18
- After God has created heaven and earth, he gave the man an estate in the garden.
Therefore a man that does not have a place to live does not qualify to ask the hand of a woman in marriage. A man that cannot maintain a house cannot maintain a home.
A man that cannot maintain himself cannot maintain a woman.
A man that is not coming from home cannot build his own home.
- God gave man work to do.
He was to work in the garden. A man that has no work has no right to marry.
A man who cannot care for himself cannot care for a woman.
- God gave man commandment.
Of all these trees, you can eat except one. A man that has not received the commandment of God cannot be a godly man no matter the wealth.
Before you enter into a marriage, check out for these things.
Marriage is not only a relationship but a destiny transaction.
These 3 things are very scarce in many marriages today. It is a common situation that after marriage some men lose their job.
The enemy knows that if he attacks your source of income it will affect your marriage and destiny.
A man stands to gain these 3 things in all his labor on earth.
- Relationship with God. Without this achieving other things are difficult.
- Children- that when you look at them you are happy and comforted.
What so ever will attack your marriage will affect the other two.
Many destinies are suffering today because there has been an attack on the marriage of their parents.
The wisdom of man is not to choose a partner.
The wisdom of women is not enough to choose a partner.
It is only God that knows your destiny partner.
Your marriage determines whether you will live long or die young.
Your marriage determines whether you will live a good life on this earth or a bad life.
There is nothing that gives man or woman high blood pressure than marital stress.
The beginning of a marriage does not determine the end unless you know how to protect that marriage spiritually.
The foundation of a marriage is what determines the future of the marriage. The foundation should be laid on God.
When you lay the foundation on sex, having children or looking for what to eat, that marriage will not last.
God will only defend a marriage that he has joined together. This is one of the benefits of being a Christian.
If God is the one that builds the foundation of that marriage and you go astray, when the problem comes and you come back to him, he is a kind God and will heal your wounds.
There is a reason why God says it is not good for man to be alone.
Satan knows the reason and says no. God knows that you cannot be alone and fulfill his purpose for you, without being tempted, being lonely… There is no attack on marriage that does not affect the two destinies.
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- My marriage, come out of every satanic attack, in the Name of Jesus.
- My Father my Father my God, deliver me from marital error, in the Name of Jesus.
- Powers that want to use my marriage to bury my destiny, die, in the Name of Jesus.